How are you? We just saw pictures of you from Alyssas
birthday party, and we saw you making terrible faces on a video that Robin sent us in
Japan. It is good to see that you havent changed very much since we came to Japan.
We were afraid you would be all grown up by now.
We miss you and wish you could come to Japan to see us, but
we will be coming home before you know it.
We wanted to get you something special for your birthday for
several reasons. One reason is that you gave us your permission to get married. Another is
that both you and Tom are "rats" (nezumi in Japanese). Since this is the
year of the rat it means you are special -- for this year.
A rat is a very good thing to be because it is thrifty and
stores things away (sounds just like you!). The Japanese financial market has done better
in years of the rat than any other time -- if you really care anything about the Japanese
stock exchange (Nikkei). We are going to send you a little money in yen and you can watch
the exchange rate for the US dollar against the yen and decide when to exchange it.

Rat Kite
We couldnt find any more rat seals, because they quit
selling them right after the beginning of the year. We were surprised because we thought
we would be able to get them all year.
The gift we are sending you has been ordered. A 70-year-old
craftsman is carving it just for you, and we will send it as soon as we get it. It is
called a hanko. It is your own private seal.
In Japan everyone must have his or her own seal in order to
open a bank account or do other business. A person (particularly a man) has several
hankos. Some hankos are for everyday affairs and are made of bamboo or wood. If someone
who is Japanese has a more common family name, they can pick up a cheap, ready-made hanko
at a stationery store. More elaborate hankos are used for major business transactions,
such as purchasing a car or a home. These hankos are beautifully crafted and carved from
such materials as ivory, jade or rare wood. A formal hanko can cost hundreds or thousands
of dollars, depending on the craftsman and materials.
A hanko is used instead of a signature. We each have a
hanko, which we use for different things. Uncle Toms is used for bank transactions
and at school to sign in and to get his salary. Mine is used for signing calligraphy. The
other day we went to the bank to transfer some money and the first thing the cashier asked
was if we had our hanko. We didnt and had to walk back to the apartment to get it!
The hanko we ordered for you has your name written in kanji
(Chinese characters) which is the oldest continuous written language in the world. The
characters are based on ancient picture writing and over time a very complex and
sophisticated writing system evolved. There are more than 30,000 kanji. Each kanji has a
meaning all by itself. When students learn a kanji, they learn its meaning, its
pronunciation and the direction and order in which the strokes are to be written. Students
must know 881 kanji by the time they are in sixth grade. When they finish high school they
must know about 2000 kanji.
My calligraphy (brush writing) teacher, Mrs. Ogawa, helped
us decide which were the correct kanji for each of our names. The kanji we picked out for
your name are pronounced "Benjamin", with the "i" pronounced like a
long "e". It means "person giving important speeches". Uncle
Toms name means, "companion who protects or guards the truth."
Maries means "truth." We couldnt find any that make sense for most
of the people we know. One reason is that the Japanese system of writing doesnt have
sounds for some of the English sounds we often use.
When we get home we will show you how to write some kanji if
you are interested. There are five different styles. They are kaisho, gyosho,
sosho, tensho and reisho.
Kaisho is what elementary children use and it is the
most basic.
winter (fuyu) in
kaisho
Gyosho is a little more rounded.
winter (fuyu) in
gyosho
Sosho is sort of like the cursive equivalent for
English. It is flowing and a little fancier than the others are.
winter (fuyu) in sosho
Your hanko will be written in tensho. It is squarer
and the one used for the seal on Japanese money. (Look for it on the yen we send you.) The
last one is reisho and it is not used very much.

The first kanji is tensho, and the
last three are reisho.
I am not learning to write in tensho or reisho.
Another form of writing is hiragana. Hiragana is a
unique Japanese system that is made of gana (kana) each of which has its own sound, (much
like the letters in our alphabet). When the hiragana are put together they are sounded out
to pronounce the word in Japanese. Another form of writing called katakana is used
for words that come from English or other languages. Like hiragana, each symbol represents
a sound. Since Japanese and English sounds are different, the words take on a different
pronunciation when rendered in katakana. For example, "baseball" in katakana is
pronounced "basu boru". It is all very complicated, but fun trying to learn.
winter (fuyu) in
hiragana
Saori, (on the left), one of my young friends in the calligraphy class signed
her name for me in romaji (the same as our letters), kanji, hiragana, and katakana. Now
you know why people think that Japanese is a very difficult language to learn! And
children must learn four ways of writing. Not just one!

Brushwriting is the most difficult thing I have ever tried
in my life. It has many rules. A person kneels, with their body resting on their legs.
That was very hard for me because my legs kept falling asleep in the beginning. One must
sit with their back very straight, and the writing is done with the right hand even if he
is left-handed (like you). There are many rituals in class that include bowing to the
teacher when entering and leaving the class. All of the brushwriting utensils are kept in
a special kit. Each item used must be placed correctly in front of oneself on the low
table, before writing.
A special kind of ink, called sumi, is used. It is
usually black and is made from soot and glue. It can be bought in a bottle to use, or
people can make their own by using water, an inkstone, and an ink stick The inkstone is
made out of a special kind of slate, some of which is found around the area where we live.
A little water is poured onto the inkstone and then is mixed with the ink stick. Just
making the ink is an art in itself. (I can't do it.) Sumi is permanent. If you get it on
your clothes, it will never come out. Uncle Tom once saw a house built in 1948 that had a
sign painted on wood. The unpainted wood wore away, but the part with sumi was still
there.
Mrs.Ogawa is very patient and kind. She writes each
character in orange sumi. Then I practice and practice with black sumi. Each time I think
it is close to the way it should be, I take it to her and she uses orange sumi to make
corrections. I must practice at home all week, and I still never get it right. Even though
it is very difficult, I like the challenge. The people in the class are very special to
me. They have become my good friends.
Calligraphy has been a major art form in Japan since the
seventh or eighth century. It is considered to be an excellent way to develop a
disciplined life and a calm being. Many Japanese believe that a
person's character is reflected in their calligraphy. If it is done correctly it is
considered to be meditative. That is one of the things I love the most about Japan. Many
things are meditative and quiet.
We hope you like your hanko when you get it. It will come in
handy when you visit Japan when you are older. But for now you can use it for anything you
want. It will be the only one like it in the world. Have fun! We hope you had a happy
birthday.
Love, Aunt Marie
If you are interested in some lessons in Japanese brush writing, here is a neat
site.
If you want to see all of the kanji that children
in Japan must learn in first grade you can look at this site. http://members.aol.com/Joyo96/Grade_1.html